43 Days Left

Charles and I went to our second Pre-Marriage counseling today. It was pretty interesting. Sean first had us take a type of personality test and will give us the results and a write up in two weeks. We went over the role of the wife and the role of the husband in Marriage according to the Bible. Then he also challenged us to something. He challenged us to not live together until after the wedding. Now we have a few concerns with that because of the boys. We aren't sure what that would do to them emotionally. He said that at least, he would encourage us to not be physical with each other. As in sex, sleeping in the same bed, etc. He said that we would be starting our marriage off firm, and that God will bless us abundantly if we are able to do this. So, we are going to try to not have sex or sleep in the same bed until the wedding night. Tomorrow we are going to set up the queen bed we have downstairs, and that is where I will be sleeping for the most part. We might switch off and on because the boys are upstairs and it wouldn't be fair to Charles to have to get up with them every morning. But.. we are going to see how it goes.

Until next time.